You have a baby.....In a bar

I was just thinking about people I have known/know. You know the ones All trash occasionally no trailor? Then there are the ones that have the trailor and are not trash at all.
You see them all dressed up they think that it`s hidden. HA! If you look hard enough you`ll see Budweiser paraphernalia,eighties hair,white studded belts,scrunchies. You`ll be tipped off quickly. Maybe instead of gaydar I have built in trash detector?
More often than not they are trying to pull themselves out of the park,they just can`t pull it off because they revert back to their trashy ways,before the deal is sealed.
I act differently around my best friends than I act around my husbands co workers. It`s still the same me. I would say things trashy or ghetto ,joking around with Tara or Lynne. Because they would know that I was joking. Where as the others wouldn`t be certain. I am pretty much considered a snob by most of my dads family. I have never been rude to them or anything like that. When I REALLY have a problem with people I use the "If you don`t have anything nice to say about anyone,don`t say anything at all." Would they prefer me to say that I think the majority of them are trashy welfare suckers,drug addicts & horrible parents? I pretty much have no contact with most of them. My dad busted his ass to have things he came from the same place they did. BUT then my dad got confused and lost it all to one of THOSE women. Another for instance,I have a very close friend. She has two sisters one is in the middle of a divorce,partly because she has stolen credit cards ,checks etc. She has received credit cards under others identities,bought cell phones using other identities of her family members. The other sister is just lazy with no goals,also pregnant again,living with her lazy husbands parents. The sister of these two (my friend) works her butt off,has a nice home,cars etc. Her sisters had the same opportunity,they just didn`t want it badly enough. These were girls that did not start out as trash,yet two of them are right down in the gutter now. I just went to check my mail,looked to my left and had to come in to edit my blog. My neighbors have SIX cars in their yard yet borrow a vehicle to go places. None of those SIX work. They have atleast 3 kids,two of which are between 2 and 4. They let these kids stay outside unsupervised ALL the time. We live about 80 feet from a very busy road. It could be worse,they don`t bother us although their yard is annoying and lack of supervision of their children.
The trashy behavior I am referring to is getting drunk causing a scene in public or even your front yard. Calling the cops having one another arrested only to be all in love within 48 hours. Your teenage kids with their baby on their hip. You thinking that`s ok.
Every now and then you will find the Reformed trash. It doesn`t happen often but it does happen either by marriage or determination . I was talking to a really good friend of mine asking her about some people that we knew in school. This one particular person I asked about and then was told that she now looks down her nose on everyone. I said, "Girl!,why didn`t you remind her that we know she lived in the projects till she got married??" She said well her familes moved up, they live in the trailor park now.
I am not referring to money here at all, I am reffering to attitude & morals or lack there of.
Now I have spicy chicken fingers on my mind ,I have lost my train of thought. I can`t remember where I was going with this. Sorry.